So the big day is fast approaching: starting Kindergarten. Your little one is about to step into the brave new world of uniforms, bells and assemblies, snack-time negotiations, learning to read and write, and (gulp) homework. 

And you? You’re preparing for one of the biggest parenting milestones – watching your baby take those first steps into “big school.”

It can feel a little overwhelming for everyone, but with the right support (and a few tried-and-tested tips), the transition can be filled with excitement, smiles, and a healthy dose of anticipation for what’s ahead.

1. Pack the comfort kit

Every superhero needs a cape…and every Kindergarten child needs a comfort kit. This might be a favourite teddy, a small family photo, or a little trinket they can keep tucked in their pocket. It’s their reminder that home is never far away.

2. Talk about school in a positive light

Sydney Catholic Schools Early Years Curriculum Specialist, Kim Moroney, suggests that, when we talk to children about starting school, it’s best to do so in a positive, natural way.

“We don’t want to build it up as the most amazing thing ever, because that can feel like a lot of pressure,” she says. “Our goal is to help children feel secure, supported, and joyful about starting school.” 

For example, instead of saying “You’re going to have the best time ever at school!”, parents might say, “You’ll get to meet new friends, play games, and learn lots of interesting things.” This helps set realistic expectations while keeping the focus positive and reassuring.

3. Practise the morning routine

Nobody enjoys a first-day scramble with socks missing in action and lunch boxes still in the dishwasher. Try a practice run: backpack on, shoes tied (ish), and off to the front door. Bonus points if you add a celebratory high-five at the drop-off.

4. Follow the school’s lead

“Sydney Catholic Schools support children as they transition to school, with each school shaped by its unique community, culture, and context,” says Kim Moroney.

“Transitioning isn’t a one-size-fits-all process. It’s about creating meaningful opportunities for children to connect with the school and, in their own time, develop a true sense of belonging.”

“So take the lead from the school, lean in, ask questions, and get involved because strong partnerships make all the difference.”

5. Team up with the teacher

Kindergarten teachers are part educator, part magician, part child-whisperer. Say a warm hello, let your little one see you trust them, and work with them to ensure a happy transition to a new way of learning. Remember: these are the people who can get a group of children to sit in a circle and actually listen. Respect the magic. 

6. Plan a parent reward

Kim reminds us that starting school isn’t just a transition for the child, it’s a transition for the whole family. 

“New routines, new schedules, and new ways of doing things take time to settle into,” she says.

“Families are learning alongside their children as everyone adjusts to this new chapter. Be gentle and give yourself grace.”

After drop-off, don’t just wander home in a daze. Line up something nice and comforting for yourself: coffee with a friend or a parent going through it with you, a quiet walk, or a guilt-free pastry. Starting school is a big deal for YOU, too. Celebrate making it through.

“Also remember, children are moving away from familiar things they’ve known like time spent at home or friendships at preschool. Recognising and acknowledging these changes helps families support their child with patience and understanding as they all find their new rhythm together,” Kim says.

7. Decompress Together Afterwards

Once your child returns home from school, ask open-ended questions:

  • “What new thing did you learn today?”
  • “Who did you sit next to?”
  • “What was something special you played today?”

Keep it simple and light. Then maybe snuggle up with a book to reconnect.

Kindergarten transitioning is all about starting a brand-new adventure. Yes, there may be tears (most likely yours), but there will also be new friends, new routines, and a new beginning to your child’s big, bold world outside home.

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